a Lalhestes is a Togar female that prefers other females and they are considered exalted in a matriarchal society.
In human terms a Lalhestes is a lesbian Togar female . Not interested in male Togar. Despite the Togar society beinbg a matriarchal society, only one in hundred thousand Togar females identifies as Lalhestes . Most Lalhestes enter religious services and become priestesses.
Lalhestes are revered by the Togar society and take a higher social place in the society. Traditionally a female Togar that is Lalhestes and has chosen another Lalhestes as partner wears a Red sash (the Lalhe-Band ) the Sash is given to them in a ceremony at a temple dedicated to Light ray spirit Malmoru .